One week of Taylor Swift dating a local football star has completely reinforced not talking about my relationship much. From people "shipping" me with my wife (Thanks for the council's approval...?), someone who hated me in high school friending me during my 6 months of unemployment to let me know how wonderful her husband was and how they had a kid together, and now I watched someone see how much they could zoom in on a private club from a city cam to see what they could see. Y'all are WEIRD about this shit. You know that, right?