i see all these posts about "i want someone to SEE ME and KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT ME and UNDERSTAND ME DEEPLY" and i just feel so disconnected from them, bc to me? that sounds like hell. i want someone who's okay with the fact that they might not understand me all the time.
obligatory disclaimers that this isn't about anyone in particular, and i'm not trying to call anyone out or yuck anyone's yum.
far from it, in fact. i see how those posts are meant to be sweet, and i wish i connected with them more
(oh also, this is NOT an invitation to make invasive comments/assumptions about me/my trauma/etc, don't even try it)
