🕸️ On the other? To consider what is to so many such a considerable aspect of ones self is in and of itself a massive ask. So much of modern society is actively and militantly obsessed with preventing anyone from questioning this, from even considering this a question to be asked.
So to willingly take that plunge? To leap into that ever-swelling pool of possibilities, to gaze upon all that one could be... And come to the complete and informed conclusion that where you already are is the right place for you? That's what we call cool.
After all, what is cooler than doing gender deliberately, no matter the angle? The cis people we know who've done that gender thinky are in many cases as deliberate in their genders as trans people we know. They just found a different angle to take it, and shoutout to that. Couldn't be us, but shoutout to that!
... So yeah, a little bit of gender thinky immediately adds like +5 coolness to anyone