today a doctor in training came in and said "alright id like to ask you to confirm your birth date and gender"
so i was like "uhh. [birthdate] and ............ ?female?"
and she said "so she/her pronouns for you?"
like fuck man! if youre just asking my pronouns, say so! you only ask my birthdate to confirm my identity so im like theres no fucking way "agender" is on my records??!!