you know not to air out my own grievances among all this shit but the degree of disdain white transfems have against transfems of colors is on full display sometimes.
i see women who harassed my wife and i out of our social spaces, who refuse to engage with us in a remotely professional or mature capacity out of rumors of abuse and "being predatory", banging their drums loudly about how horrible the transmisogyny of this entire event has been.
and i agree! it just strikes me as convenient that they become so loud when it's not a face to a name, and more importantly, when they can't leverage their power to pressure women of color out of their communities for being marxists a little too loudly. they still stalk us to this day with the pretense of "we simply don't want you around us because these rumors make you a danger", and nobody bats an eye. but maybe i'm just bitter.
also i do want to clarify that the alienation from this group started and stemmed from my wife sharing openly marxist leninist thoughts and ideas as well as mentioning unpalletable kinks. i kept myself and my opinions much quieter so i wasn't excommunicated as violently and immediately as she was, but that in turn just made the almost-entirely white space almost fetishize me. they'd use me as a rhetorical point of inclusivity and "support" my culture by asking me for recipes and asking me about living in México while barely engaging with me as an actual person.
