Loyal priest and worshipper of Lordmaster Mefiialtez / Neopet //
Furry artist & FGC //
28 / bustyboy (altersex) / kinky grey ace / neurodivergent (AuDHD, OCD) / disabled //
ACAB / trans rights / BLM / fascists eat bricks
I actually disagree! Well, not with the part about wanting to find kink games where the kinky fate is the gameplay, those sure would be fun. But I don't think that making the kinky fate into the fail state is a misunderstanding, just a specific niche.
For me, a big part of the appeal of porn games and the fantasy they present is the humiliation, defeat, and vulnerability of losing control. That ends up being facilitated more by a game that lets me try and win, only to put me through lewd and disgraceful consequences when I fail at that. It feels way more intense because I can get the experience of genuinely struggling against the outcome! A game that opened with my character already in that state would not achieve that.
I guess I'm just too eager to see the results of losing control. I don't really stop to smell the roses of the loss of control itself, which, maybe that's on me? I'm just generally eager to submit rather than even pretending to not want something I want.