theartofkombat

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Honestly just excited to be here. I'm a Hispanic, bi, non-binary, self-taught artist, burlesque dancer, and witch. I can't really list any favorite things because ND object impermanence. But I do enjoy talking to people and taking commissions when I have the energy, so drop me a line!



NireBryce
@NireBryce

today I had someone, an otherwise seemingly kind rando, try to use the Manager Voice on me as if he thought everyone got the Christian Discipline Conditioning from childhood (parents and even public schools, who think Kids Must Behave Or Else) and now I'm kinda worried that works more often than it doesn't.

but also like, clearly didn't understand that's what it was because he was just completely confused when I told him he'd get a lot further up here in the north if he was less of a dick.


IkomaTanomori
@IkomaTanomori

"discipline" here means "constant threat of violent punishment." The right wing Christian household belief set gives permission to parents to do just about anything to children, and teaches that beating or otherwise hurting children is good for them. This creates a conditioned flinch of fear and typically a deference to authority with it. It's often mistaken for leadership. It's not.


NireBryce
@NireBryce
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in reply to @IkomaTanomori's post:

The worst part is when you assume everyone is treated that way at home, it is normal parenting as far as you can tell, so who are you gonna talk to? As a child I mean. You learned when to shut your mouth to not get another beating... You learned how things you say get twisted.
How some things can come back, months after saying them to someone, just to be yelled at again. Or worse.
So you don't talk about those things and just assume the worst. Of course the worst doesn't happen at your home.. but you have heard stories and know you don't have any power to change anything about anything.

After all, the worst things don't happen to you... So why rattle the cage if you could as well just enjoy the cool breeze until next time.

And it's not exclusive to a particular religion, though that's one of the common moral justifications of this perversion of loving relationships of care. It's the family scale reproduction of the violent panopticon that our entire society reproduces, fractally, in almost every facet and situation of life.

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