not overly fond of the frequency of people making fun of trans men for being effeminate. like there's a time and place where it's funny but it's kind of tiring after a while. when we're feminine we're "not real men" but then when we're masculine we're Men (derogatory). i don't want to police people's language and i know it's usually meant in good fun but it feels like there's no winning.
this is very true and pisses me off greatly. i hate how trans men are expected to "act like real men" if they want to identify as one, so when they're feminine they're accused of faking or whatever. but then when they're masculine it's like "ewww you're a man" like Wtf do you want. why can't trans people be treated normally.