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Ada/Lykie - 30 - 18+ - HRT since 22/02/2023 - transbian, Queer, painting restorer - very ace - I wolf out sometimes - θ∆


trans-lykanthropie
@trans-lykanthropie

I spent all zhat time wizh my family last week and not one of zhem commented on or asked about my transition

What, we're just going to ignore zhat it's happening like it's some kind of forbidden topic of discussion?


LeahPlease
@LeahPlease

This I feel like I can be outraged at without having to ask


trans-lykanthropie
@trans-lykanthropie

Oh please by all means be outraged, zhere's plenty of ammunition for zhat


thriron
@thriron

god I hate that so much. Last time I was home the only person who asked was my brother in law and it was so endearing to me.


trans-lykanthropie
@trans-lykanthropie

My brozher-in-law was zhe only one to ask last time but nobody asked zhis time


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in reply to @trans-lykanthropie's post:

There's something of a strain of thought that goes "never mention the transition, pretend things were always like this, that's how you show respect." It wasn't uncommon to, say, announce a daughter's death and the arrival of a cousin to take over for them at the farm ("they do look a bit alike, don't they? they have the family nose").

But it doesn't feel like that's what's happening here.