the thing they don't tell you about dating apps is how often you're presented with someone who has your deadname and you get to have a little internal struggle of "maybe? no, no, it'd be too weird"

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the thing they don't tell you about dating apps is how often you're presented with someone who has your deadname and you get to have a little internal struggle of "maybe? no, no, it'd be too weird"
God, that'd be.. awkward at best. I hope this hasn't happened too much :(
Ahaha, more than you might expect
But in terms of 'reasons I swipe left on men', it's a looooong way down the list
adjacent struggle you reminded me of: there's a girl out there whose dad, brother, three uncles and two cousins are all named Kenneth
Feel like a bullet whizzed past my head every time I'm near them and somebody talks to me