idk anything about yinglets or the whole thing about how they speak/type but my main takeaway is that stuff like this is the reason physically abled people don't feel comfortable/safe in disabled spaces/communities bc of how neurodivergent people complain about how hard it is for them to remember to include us and make accommodations for us. like you do realise a lot of us physically disabled people are neurodivergent too right.
i don't really want to be involved in the conversations surrounding it really bc my god some people are vile. but it is very upsetting that things like this seem to be a common trend. and maybe it is hard to learn to remember to tag something, but just bc something's difficult doesn't mean it's not worthwhile. it is worth taking effort to take the time to give other people our basic needs.
that's the thing that irks me the most i think. why is other people's fun and comfort always prioritised above physically disabled people's actual basic fucking needs and accessibility.
