just realised oversharing isn't a substitute for actually being close to someone. day ruined.
i've been thinking about this all day actually, bc i always thought "a friend is someone who i feel comfortable sharing personal things with. that's what closeness is." but tbh i seem to share that sort of thing with almost everyone so now i really don't know how to define friendship. i already had a poor idea of defining friendship in my head due to neurodivergencies and such but i think it's worse now. i also think i've shared some really personal amd vulnerable stuff with people i shouldn't have.
