i think i'd be a lot happier if i stopped talking to cis people about trans stuff and stopped talking to (physically) abled people about (physical) disabilities. i always just seem to end up educating them or getting told i'm overreacting when i point out a microagression. and it's tiring, i don't want to be doing this my whole life. i barely have energy for myself, let alone to also educate people and then be expected to comfort them bc they said/did something transphobic/ableist.
