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yeah youre spot on on that. the only thing i wanted to add is i feel like... the discussion tends to either go
A) "dont use TMA/TME at all" type of line of thought which ignores what you effectively pointed out
B)a very binary "i say this person is TME, thus they have 0 overlap with problems 1/2/3 a TMA person faces . TME person has 0 say on x/y/z/a/b/c thing". for some things the line between TMA/TME is extremely fuzzy and the relevance of someone's input is often complex. TME/TMA should not be used as a shallow, rigid bludgeon.
the reality of this dynamic in differences has to be acknowledged and acted upon without being ossified into simplified nonsense.