agender in that i could put a million words to describe my gender, but they wouldn't really serve a meaningful purpose when it comes to lived reality. im just doing whatever i want and my gender as a concept isn't really that important to me, i just dont care about it.
like all that really matters is my actual presentation, and that people know how to refer to me (preferred name and pronouns). thats the stuff that matters more to me than finding a hyper-specific label to describe myself in concept. if im describing myself im usually just describing my presentation in reality
