So, this post is kinda resulting from the discourse today but isn't about it due to understanding basically none of it.
But anyway, if I say or do something problematic or hurtful, don't be afraid to call me out on it. I do stupid stuff all the time and often don't realize it until someone calls me out on it. I don't want to hurt people and I'm not intentionally doing so when I say stupid stuff so like tell me when I do. It helps me recognize things I typically overlook. (If you prefer to just block and move on, I don't blame you, it's not your job to teach me how not to do stupid stuff.)
But yeah, if I do something that could be harmful and you want to tell me you can leave comments or drop me an anonymous ask if you want to stay hidden about it.