I've got the three conflicting approaches of like
-I want to coddle others over their diaper use and look after them (to some degree, can't do it to everyone all the time)
-I want to be embarrassed and humiliated by diapers, cause I mean, it's hot ofc
-But I also want to embrace them, at least to an extent, use that kind of embrace to dom, and like get a padded pole-dancing comm at some point, that kind of thing
And while they don't necessarily clash inherently, they clash tangentially enough to make things difficult. xwx
The first approach is my default with some people, the second approach is my default while padded and the third approach... is probably the most rare.
It's hard to be embarrassed about diapers and potentially being made dependent and then just flaunting them the next second. Not to mention all the seemingly mixed signals switching between these approaches can bring
