I haven't said this because I own a quarter of this place so it would come off as sour grapes but yeah, bluesky isn't that much larger than cohost, and all of the additional perceived Mindshare they have is due to the fact that:
a) they intentionally recruited twitter influencers to be early users
b) they intentionally put everyone in much closer contact constantly
obviously bluesky has a billionaire and tech celebrity at the helm so they have the ability to do a) in a way we don't, but also these are things we would've intentionally chosen not to do even if we could
knowing that bluesky has like 2.5x more users than this place and posts just very visibly do way fucking worse on there is so funny
break yourself from the mentality of "i need to be where the people are" because you actually don't, you gotta be where people actively want to see your shit. what good is mad followers and mad views and mad algorithm if no one is taking your shit in and supporting you?
bluesky, threads, etc. are social media for people who're already famous, it's for fans and parasocial simps to gawk at celebs and gossip about what their fave said to some other big name