vurr n' co / vurrsys || 24 || Ξ”Ξ˜& || read our pinned post ok?

we're the vurr n' co system!! we're queer weirdos who love self expression and creativity. 18+!

last.fm listening


posts from @vurren tagged #welcome to cohost

also: #introduction post, #welcome post, #introductions, #new to cohost, #intro, #introduction, #new user, #first post, #welcometocohost, #intro post, ##welcome to cohost

the energy we try to go into this site with:

being "mutuals" does not matter. "mutuals" is an illusion of actual friendship. we treat everyone like they are an acquaintance, unless proven otherwise. we leave nice comments on people's posts who we don't follow and who don't follow us, and we welcome and accept nice comments from people who don't follow us or who we dont follow back. we accept change in these dynamics, because we understand enough friendly conversation can become something more than two random people on a website. we assert our boundaries but we dont treat non-friends as never-friends

we have been on too many websites where mutuals were treated as holy and anyone otherwise was a stranger. to us, this is social media for those who actually want to be social. we hope you all will feel that, too


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