Some people you will meet in life are Actually Badâ scammers, abusers, toxic cesspits, and so on. This essay is NOT about them, those assholes you dislike for extremely reasonable reasons. This essay is about people you dislike for petty reasons, or reasons much smaller than the dislike warrants, or no reason you can point to at all.
There is a fallacy installed in some people that goes something like:
It is morally wrong to dislike someone, especially to act on that dislike, UNLESS they are a bad person.
And this is completely incorrect, but the bigger problem is it invents problems out of thin air.
~1600 words about why it's fine to just dislike someone sometimes!
I may have written this mostly so I don't have to go over it repeatedly in other essays
There is an argument to be made that this is rather first draft-y given that I wrote it in a sleep-deprivation fugue, but besides potentially omitting some of my points (because I said them really clearly in my head and then forgot to type them out #skilled) I think this is most of what I wanted.

