First of all: Be nice to yourself ;=;

Secondly: That doesn't mean you're not disabled. Disabilities are disabilities. There's no such thing as validity.

Third: You don't hold others to that kind of standard, so don't do it to yourself either >.<

hey uh that's not how validity works? without knowing the story, I don't think they're entirely your fault, and it wouldn't make you a worse person if they were