wooby

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feel weird because i feel like an imposter both in gender and sexuality but for completely opposite reasons. i say nonbinary girl because i dont know that ill ever feel completely aligned with "woman" (or honestly with "human" but i'm not opening that can of worms rn, maybe ever) but im usually always fine with "girl" and she/her and i wanna be feminine and pretty and cute and all those sound pretty stereotypically binary to me. on the other hand i say lesbian for my sexuality but im definitely not not attracted to some men but i dont think id ever date one but i dont know if i want to completely exclude the idea. so yeah i feel like a liar constantly how's the day going for y'all


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in reply to @wooby's post:

fwiw we feel much the same way about gender (a lot of the time, there's some fluidity in our case tho) and def id with nonbinary girl.
(you probably already know this but) having some feelings/interests that fit the binary doesn't just. block someone from being nonbinary. it's more about "do you feel like you're getting something useful out of calling yourself nonbinary?" and if so then more power to you

overall just supportive-energy and "not being neatly taxonomizable doesn't make one a liar"