Anonymous User asked: okay I missed the window for boredom asksby a long margin but I got one anyway! is phantom dick a thing? like phantom limb sensations that some people get after having an external body part removed?
nah it's chill yall can still ask vaginoplasty stuff
there was some phantom limb stuff at first
- need the need to itch a spot -> feel it externally where spot used to be -> hand reaches down instinctively and just fucking whiffs lmaooo. this kind went away pretty quickly for me, the way to get past this kind of feeling is to just try to locate the new location where the spot is. I keep a sense of humor about this one, or get horny about it. by end of week 3 this is pretty much done for me
- I have almost tried to pee standing up one (1) time when I was pretty tired, and that was very funny
- for the first week or so after peeing I kept feeling like I should be shaking something off LMAOO and it just didn't feel right without it, that's p much gone away tho
- re:point 1: the only time this sucks is when it's a spot on your previous scrotum that feels like it needs to be itched because that is now internalllllll so it's nontrivial to reach that area haha
- while walking around naked during the first week it kept feeling like I should have my dick swinging back and forth or bouncing a lil bit or whatever ya know? but nope! no motion whatsoever and that's so weird at first! more because there's an absence of motion that u feel like it really should be there
I would say the main strategies for dealing with proprioception issues is to just touch different areas while looking at them in a mirror, and also by using the body parts. phantom limb stuff has gone away for me mostly so far, not sure how much I'll get it in the future ofc.
I'll say that I used to get phantom pussy feelings during sex and wow those were actually pretty accurate to how having something in your pussy actually feels, did not ever get phantom clit and I don't think I could have predicted what that's like