okay so for the purpose of this tag having a proper timeline, I'm 9 weeks in and I just got fucked like.... actually fucked last night not just tentative gentle sex and wowwwww having a pussy is so good anyway I've been healing pretty quickly and wanted to keep the ledger up to date haha
at this point it sorta has stopped feeling like such a time sink and a burden to have gone through this surgery+recovery :)
can do's:
- sit upright with my donut pillow for long periods and sit upright without it for shorter periods (specifically it's called a "boppy" it's a nursing pillow for the baby to lay on but it works well for this)
- focus during work
- bring in groceries (slowly)
- drive
- orgasm
- have sex
- take a toy/dick bigger than the dilator I'm using
can't do's:
- sit upright all day
- lift tooo much stuff
- taking out the trash and unloading the dishwasher is still difficult but I can do it
- strenuous activity like working out or running or walking super far
last week I went on vacation with my partner (originally my surgery date was supposed to be so much earlier so we planned ahead to have the vacation now) and I got a wheelchair so I didn't have to walk as much. wheelchair is major hacks you absolutely need to get on this , the mobility aid rlly do aid ur mobility fr fr