in all seriousness though, in the same way you should not listen to "men are like X and women are like Y" you do not need to internalize "gays are like Z" unless you want to be fucking miserable. you have to become yourself. you have to become yourself.
- they/them
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in reply to @geometric's post:
I don't actually believe my local sports teams are the best and coolest, but I act like they are, as a fun hobby. Whenever people say "men are like X" I assume they're taking that same kind of position - pretending this interest has deeper meaning, but just for jokes. And like sports teams there are people who actually believe all that shit, and they're crazy and maybe keep your distance. But don't sweat it too much casually imo.
"#I just want to look like the hottest girls I remember seeing all the time theyre so effortless" OK, like, I feel this on such a level it's absurd, but this is hilarious to me, cause I've seen photos of you are you are already doing this
This is something I've been trying to help people understand for a long time, and I think this is the most concise way I've ever seen this expressed.
There is no universal queer/ trans/ gay/ etc. experience, anyone who says otherwise is either in denial or else trying to police other people's queerness.