i've been tryna get some transition stuff done recently and some of it has involved talking to older trans women who either actually do the procedures (i.e. are electrologists) or handle insurance, and what i'm learning is that older trans women are SO talkative about medical transition. like the experience is fully just
woman i am talking to: (on minute 40 of explaining the intricate details of how she handles nuances around billing and future desires for bottom surgery vs. not desiring it)
me: (fondly) you could have said all of this in half as much time as you did
