28 - queer dude - irish - 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏴
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Software dev.
I draw suggestive things sometimes.
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Boyfriend: @hephaistos
Getting into internet fights is such a fucking brain melting activity and probably one of the best things to possibly quit. It doesn't even matter if they rightfully deserve it, the problem is that you don't.
My life got better when I realized that the ultimate way to stick it to the worst people on the internet is to create happy vibrant social spaces far away from them
this is true for other people but I'm actually doing valuable work that's changing the world, like Demosthenes and Locke in Ender's Game
Right, because Peter and Valentine are both well adjusted people with no self-destructive tendencies lmao
my thought when it comes to problem actors in my communities is "I hope they can find a community that supports and embraces them because ours is not it"
recovery from this mindset is a surprisingly long and non-linear process. it would help if i had a waterslide.
