Isak is a good friend and sie writes some gorgeous and sexy stuff, I highly recommend giving hir a follow if anything about gay jewish counterfactual gothic fantasy erotica gets your attention
Isak's work is well, well, worth reading. Get a bunch of your friends together and read it on a call (caveat must be friends you are okay with reading lovely erotica to aloud)
maybe use that to flirt. low-energy date night: cuddle and read smut aloud together.